Issue 3

What You're About to Discover

  • 8 Money Management Tips for Adults with ADHD
  • An ADD/ADHD Date: 10 Fun, Cheap Date Ideas
  • Adult ADHD and Childhood Trauma: Is There a Link?
  • ​Hobby Ideas for Adults with ADHD



Occasional financial mishaps might be common, but when it becomes a regular occurrence, it's essential to confront the real issues, especially for adults managing ADHD symptoms. Remember, your financial well-being plays a vital role in your overall health.

📈 Money-Saving Strategies Tailored for You 📈

1. Spot the Problem Areas: Recognize common pitfalls like impulsive buys or hefty credit card dues. Understand them to address them!

2. Set Clear Goals: Wish to lower your debts? Or build an emergency fund? Break these goals down into smaller, actionable steps.

3. Simplified Financial Organization: Keep things uncomplicated. Use broad categories for bills, monthly payment reminders, and perhaps even smartphone apps tailored to help you stay on top of them.

4. Tackle Impulse Spending: Curb that urge! Maybe carry only the cash you need, and always, always shop with a list in hand.

🚀 Harness Solutions to Elevate Financial Health 🚀

5. Embrace Technology: Utilize auto-payments, online banking, and tools that centralize your financial data. These can work wonders in preventing late fees and the subsequent cascade of issues.

6. Seek Expert Guidance: Sometimes an external perspective is all you need. Consider financial advisors or even a diligent bookkeeper, especially if self-employed.

7. Think About an ADHD Coach: There are coaches specifically versed in aiding adults with ADHD in managing their finances. They might be the game-changer you need!

8. Share the Load: If you can't get a professional, perhaps partner up with a loved one. Teamwork often brings clarity, and two heads can be better than one!

Remember, you aren't alone in this journey. Everyone, irrespective of ADHD, faces financial challenges. The key is to seek solutions, step forward, and stay proactive. And if you ever feel overwhelmed, don't hesitate to ask for assistance.

For an in-depth exploration of these strategies and solutions, 8 Money Management Tips for Adults with ADHD

Chris Iliades, MD is a full-time freelance writer based in Cape Cod, Massachusetts. His writing has appeared in The Washington Post and other publications online. He was the Boston correspondent for Infection Protection, an award-winning online health blog.



Relationships can be a beautiful dance of emotions, especially when navigating the nuances of attention variations. Here's a curated list of date ideas tailored for unique connections:

🍽 1. Romantic Dinner: Why not recreate a dish from your first date? Candles, wine, and desserts can make it extra special.

🚶 2. Take a Walk: Release anxiety and connect deeply by walking. Beaches, parks, or unexplored streets are perfect settings.

🔍 3. Scavenger Hunt: Engage in a fun and interactive game. Lay out clues, and watch the excitement unfold!

🍿 4. Movie Marathon: Swap the regular flicks for romantic comedies or movies you've cherished together. Bonus: Try a DIY red carpet event!

🥘 5. Cooking Class: Spice it up in the kitchen. Learn a new recipe and bond over the process.

🎲 6. Board Games: A low-budget, high-fun date night. Keep snacks ready and perhaps discover a new game.

🌍 7. Day Trip: Organize a stress-free outing. Proper planning ensures a seamless adventure!

🍉 8. Picnic Pleasures: Find a scenic location, pack a basket, and spend quality time in nature.

🧘 9. DIY Spa Day: Transform your home into a tranquil retreat. DIY masks and relaxing treatments await!

❤️ 10. Volunteer Together: Bonding while giving back is rewarding in more ways than one.

Remember: Every relationship requires effort. Understand your partner, respect differences, and nurture your bond. Sometimes, the simplest gestures like a handwritten note or a warm hug make all the difference. Cherish every moment and focus on building memories!

Want a deeper dive into these ideas? An ADD/ADHD Date: 10 Fun, Cheap Date Ideas

The ADD Family is a middle-aged suburban mom who drives her kids around and struggles with work-life balance. She has wanted to be a mom her entire life. She is working hard to be one of the best lifestyle blogs available.



Many adults facing attention challenges share a common thread, with genetics playing a pivotal role. Notably, a strong connection exists between early trauma and these attention issues in adulthood.

Childhood Trauma Explained
Childhood trauma consists of alarming or perilous events that a young individual witnesses or undergoes. Recognized as adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) or early life stress, these situations can be firsthand or vicarious. Certain groups, especially women and Black, Hispanic, or Latinx youths, are more susceptible.

Deciphering Attention Issues from Trauma Response
While attention challenges stem from brain development anomalies, trauma represents an emotional reaction to distressing events. Studies suggest that adults diagnosed with these challenges are often prone to posttraumatic stress disorder (PTSD). This mood disorder, following traumatic experiences, can manifest persistently or intermittently.

Childhood Trauma: A Catalyst for Attention Issues?
A blend of genetics, environment, and lifestyle defines us. But early trauma seems to have a significant impact on enduring attention symptoms. Such experiences might amplify toxic stress levels, imperiling both physical and mental health.

Factors to consider include:

Brain Development's Impact: Trauma in formative years might shape brain regions, influencing thoughts and actions, and leading to symptoms like perpetual fear, stress sensitivity, and impulse control.

Negative Memory Bias: Past traumas may skew perceptions, focusing more on negative memories. This can lead to symptoms like inattention or heightened activity.

Social Support's Role: A supportive environment can offset the trauma's impacts. Children recuperate better from stress when in a secure and caring environment.

Genetic Predispositions: A family history of attention challenges can increase susceptibility, and genes might also play a role in trauma's brain impact.

Does Inattention Increase Childhood Trauma Odds?

Childhood symptoms might enhance the likelihood of experiencing traumas, such as accidents or abuse. This can lead to attention challenges in adulthood. Reasons might include:

Perceived Misbehavior: Kids with behavioral challenges might inadvertently find trouble, leading to unwarranted punishments.

Overlooked Symptoms: Traumatized children might not display overt hyperactivity. This could escalate life strains and increase trauma risks.

Parental Mental Health: Parents of children with behavioral issues might face their own mental challenges, potentially adopting a more rigid parenting style.

Seeking Assistance

If your past shadows you with trauma, talk to a medical professional. Consider a therapist skilled in traumatic stress disorders for a tailored approach. With professional guidance, you can manage both trauma and attention symptoms, utilizing medication, therapy, or both.

To know more, Adult ADHD and Childhood Trauma: Is There a Link?

Smitha Bhandari, MD is board certified in adult psychiatry, child and adolescent psychiatry, and forensic psychiatry through the American Board of Psychiatry and Neurology. Bhandari has a broad range of experience and has worked in many different practice settings in the Atlanta area. She has been featured as the guest speaker at a variety of hospitals and organizations within the community.



People with attention challenges often have a whirlwind of creativity and curiosity. This dual-edged sword can lead them to discover myriad hobbies, diving deep into each one with fervor. But sustaining these hobbies can be a hurdle.

Understanding the Hurdles in Pursuing Hobbies

The burst of intense focus often displayed by those with attention challenges is termed hyperfocus. While it seems advantageous initially, it's due to an irregular attention system. This intense phase of focus, often accompanied by significant investment, can wane quickly. The brain's pursuit for continual dopamine surges pushes these individuals to seek novel stimuli, leading to shifting interests.

Perks of Engaging in Hobbies

1. Stress Reduction: Engaging in pleasurable activities is therapeutic. Not only does it alleviate stress but research also indicates reduced blood pressure and cortisol levels. Such activities can also be shields against mood disorders.

2. Structuring Time: Those with attention challenges often grapple with managing time. Regularly dedicating time to a hobby can provide much-needed structure and efficiency to one's routine.

3. Forging Social Ties: Hobbies can be a springboard for social interactions. From joining clubs related to the hobby to discussing interests online, the scope for connection is vast.

4. Fueling Creativity: Attention challenges often come with a boon—creativity. Delving into creative hobbies harnesses this inherent talent.

5. Boosting Self-worth: Mastering skills, accomplishing goals, or simply creating something can elevate self-esteem, often compromised in those with attention challenges.

Suggested Hobbies for Attention Challenges

1. Music and Dance: Engaging with music, be it playing, composing, or dancing, can be therapeutic and invigorating.

2. Physical Activities: Activities that involve movement, from sports to yoga, not only promote physical health but also mental well-being.

3. Brain Games: Puzzles, video games, or board games can be stimulating and fun, engaging the creative mind productively.

4. Artistic Pursuits: Drawing, crafting, photography, or even pottery can be fulfilling outlets for expressing oneself.

5. Gardening: A therapeutic activity, gardening offers the joy of nurturing and the reward of seeing one's efforts bloom.

6. Cooking: While it might require planning and organization, the joy of crafting a dish can be immensely gratifying.

7. Reading: Whether it's fiction, non-fiction, blogs, or audiobooks, reading offers an escape and broadens horizons.

8. Volunteering: Engage with a cause close to your heart. The act not only fills time but also fills the heart.

In conclusion, the intrinsic benefits of hobbies are manifold. For those with attention challenges, the journey might have a few more turns, but the destination is as rewarding.

For a deeper dive into this topic, Hobby Ideas for Adults with ADHD

Done Team is a digital health company that is making high quality psychiatric chronic care management more accessible and affordable for patients. Our mission is to empower everyone living with ADHD to reach their fullest potential.


Book Club

Driven to Distraction

Groundbreaking and comprehensive, Driven to Distraction has been a lifeline to the approximately eighteen million Americans who are thought to have ADHD.

The classic was revised in 2011 to modernize the content, though reviewers say the information is timeless.

“My doctor recommended this book to me,” one reviewer wrote. “I couldn’t help but tear up a little whenever I read something that 100% described me. I definitely recommend this to anyone who is suffering from ADHD.”

I'm excited about all the ideas I have for this newsletter...and I can't wait to share them with all of YOU! Thank-you all so much for joining me on this journey.

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